Beginnings are fragile, when you first meet someone and feel attracted, it’s pretty natural to try to put your best foot forward rather than in your mouth. After several disasters I did my best to bury my spanko side and concentrate on the vanilla side of things. I certainly did not want to come across like this guy.
Even after some mutual attraction was a fact and we had become intimate I was hesitant to reveal my fantasies. Some times for months and even years, I would disguise myself. Eventually when I just had to come out or it seemed like a good idea it was difficult to explain just what I was all about. In hindsight this approach was probably screwed up and resulted in more difficulties than if I had been more open in the first place.
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In my experience after opening up there was still the problem of communication. Was what I wanted also acceptable and desired, or would I get it wrong. The toughest call for me to make is when there is slight resistance that seems like part of a game. Some people want to be spanked and can’t admit it, and others just aren’t into it at all. I don’t think there have been may arrests for spanking an unwilling partner, but to me I really do not want to impose my fantasies on anyone.
I have been warned or rather advised, it should be this easy.
CS
PS This Sunday the last Sam Swatt strip that I have collected.
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